Not too long ago, I shared an article, The Self-Help Trap: Have We Got Passion and Purpose All Wrong?
The response was overwhelmingly optimistic, with most readers agreeing and one woman responding…
“Adore it! It makes me take into consideration what the trade of self-help is doing…”
After patting myself on the again, trying within the mirror, and winking “legend”, I proceeded to learn the rest of her message.
She went on to ask…
“Do you suppose “influencers” or “coaches” are conscious that as an alternative of serving to others, they’re getting them to really feel much more depressing?
Most likely the query is: Do they actually care?
The extra they create depressed folks, the extra they’ll have work…not less than that is for “coaches” that don’t give a fuck about serving to others.”
Right here’s my reply:
Sure and No…
I don’t imagine any particular person is deliberately creating depressed folks, however I do imagine the trade performs a job within the rising numbers combating their psychological well being.
I believe the teaching trade, by its very nature, attracts each narcissists and empaths — two excessive ends of the spectrum, each of which are likely to battle emotionally for various causes and in want of assist (take it with a pinch of salt), which is why many — finally — gravitate to changing into a “coach” or “healer” or no matter.
Give it some thought…
In case you take the scenic path to determine this shit out, you’re finally going to be well-versed at serving to others since you’ll have wasted years of your life studying extremely painful classes…
Classes that may be handed on that would probably assist others struggling immensely.
Narcissistic folks are likely to be taught a few of these instruments and see a chance for their very own success.
Consider religious cult leaders like Bikram.
Empaths be taught and need to assist others as a result of they don’t need others to expertise the identical shit they did.
Consider Nicky Cullen 😆
